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My Mother-In-Law is Driving Me Crazy

Dear Deb, My Mother-in-Law was talking to my husband (her son) and she said “I love you so much my heart aches for you.” What does that mean? He is an only child and his Mom and Dad are married but not happily married. My husband visits her every other day and she
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Is a Kiss Cheating?

Dear Deb, I am a happily married professional and a Mom, but lately I’ve been attracted to another man. Without going into detail, he’s someone that I see once a month (because of the nature of his job). I only enjoyed his stimulating company and sense of humor until
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My Husband Goes to Strip Clubs

Dear Deb, I’m a 25 year old married female, my husband has a past hisory of going to strip clubs. We have been together three years (married for 2months). He does not go out like he used to, but sometimes he still has to go to the nude bars with his single friends. I dont
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Is it OK for a Married Woman to Have a Male Friend?

Dear Deb, I was wondering what your opinion was on having male friends if one is married. For me it would be for emotional support and to do some fun things. I don’t always get everything I need out of my marriage and I think this would keep me happier as a person. Your
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