love and relationship advice

Deb has been giving advice and lending a friendly ear on the Internet since 1999.  We recently updated our website in 2009 in honor of our tenth anniversary and we hope you will enjoy the new look and features.

Here are some Frequently Asked Question.

Q. Will my personal information be exposed if I write to Dear Deb?

A. We will never reveal your email address or share or sell your personal information with ANYONE.  When you write to Deb or post a question in the Community please don't use real names or locations.

Q. Does Deb answer every letter?

A. Deb makes every attempt to answer all letters, but at times it gets a bit overwhelming, so please feel free to post to the Community (Forum) where our members help others with really good advice.

Q. What's with the Martini Glass that Deb is holding.  Does Deb have a drinking problem?

A. No, she doesn't.  That is just a bit of whimsy, a toast to you and a nod to all those martini lovers out there.